Oh, the big day. That day is different for everyone depending on the occasion. For some it's their wedding day, graduation day, day a child is to be born, day a child is to be adopted, surgery, vacation, engagement, and the list can go on.
For us, the big day was making the decision as which way we leap into the faith of God. Either where we currently live or to relocate somewhere else.
Well, on our most recent big day, we made the decision to relocate to Greenville. As I mentioned in the previous post, this is the most significant decision we have ever had to make in our married life. There are still some uncertainties but we both have a calming peace about the decision we made.
From the phone call of allowing us 2 more days to decide...to the moment JB gave his 2 weeks notice to his current employer other events happened that we felt were confirmations from God. Circumstances that only He could have orchestrated.
One in particular that happened was an email. Yes, a mere email that I felt was all God. I have a cousin, Todd, that is a pastor in South Carolina. The last time I had spoken with Todd was in November at a family wedding.
No offense, Todd, but I rarely hear from him especially through email. He stays very busy with his growing church and family. Time just does not allow him to answer or communicate much through email. The last email that he received from me was regarding JB's position loss as the Corporate Trainer and placed in a commission only job back in Feb. This email was a general email telling loved ones and friends of JB's recent job situation and if they needed furniture to ask for JB.
Anyway, Wednesday morning when I checked my email, I saw that I had an email as a reply from Todd to that February email. It simply stated the following:
"Holly,
Hey, hope you guys are doing fine. I had you all on my mind this morning and said a prayer for you. What is the latest on Jeremy’s job situation? I understand things have been tough".
When I responded with our situation he replied back with this:
Today’s Prayer,
“Father in Heaven, I ask you to bless JB and HB with wisdom and insight in this decision that is before them. You certainly know all the plans, hopes, dreams, and paths that You have planned for their lives. Reveal to them your perfect plan. As you do, give to them Your perfect peace. Right now it is easy for them to see all the obstacles. There are obstacles to staying. There are obstacles to moving. Remind them, however, that in the center of your will, all obstacles become opportunities. In these days of decision, simply guide them to what is Your very best. Make your will very clear so that as the final decision is made, no wavering or doubt remains in the heart. Take Care of every need that JB, HB, CB, and BB encounter. Show them your faithfulness in meeting the needs for every detail of their lives. Thank you for the faith that they exhibit. Lead them by that Faith. In Jesus Name, Amen.”
Holly, thanks for the update on your situation. I had no idea of the matter that was before you. Perhaps 6 weeks ago Mom did mention Trustmark and Greenville to me but I had no idea you were at a point of having to make a decision. We love you guys and support you in whatever God leads you to do. We will continue to pray diligently for you during this period.
Blessings,
Todd and family
I mean really. I haven't heard from him since November and God put on his heart to email me. God revealed himself through Todd at a time I needed it most.
So, with other events that are similar to this just a little too personal to share with the world, we made our decision to go with more peace than the decision we had made to stay.
This bittersweet season of our life is just that, a season. We believe that God could be calling us to Greenville for more than a job. And he may call us back here again one day. So we don't say "Good Bye", instead we say, "See you Later".
JB is to report June 8th. All the living arrangements have not been completed and are still being detailed. We ask for prayers that this transition go as smoothly as possible.
Until next time, See you late, HB
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6 comments:
Holly ~
8 years ago this month, Trey took a job in Texas that put us in a new place, far away from everyone we knew and loved. We accepted reluctantly, without a place to live or any knowledge about the town to which he had been assigned.
It was not easy to go, and somedays I begged him to take me home. But I will always thank God for that time in Texas because Trey & I grew so close, with only each other to call friend for a while. I learned a lot about being a good mom and a good wife without the distractions of my comfortable, busy life I left behind.
10 months after we moved to Texas, we were walking out the door of our little rental house to sign the contract on buying a house in Texas, accepting the fact that this was our new home, when the phone rang. It was a job offer for Trey to come home to Jackson, when he hadn't put out the first feeler to find another job! Needless to say, God's timing is perfect.
I tell you all this to say, there is a purpose and a reason for this unexpected change for your family. Be ready to grow in so many ways as you follow God and your husband to a new place.
April
I can't say that I am excited, but I can't say I'm surprised either. I am just glad you have a peace because even if something is hard, it is better when there is a peace that surpasses all understanding present in your life. I pray His blessings on you, JB and your sweet boys. Saying that I want you guys to stay is simply selfish on the part of me wanting my friend close and on the part of my sweet little girl who will miss her CB and BB so much. We love you and are glad you can breathe a sigh of relief because probably the hardest part (making the decision and jumping into His arms) is behind you now. Please let me know if you need anything. Your sister in Christ, Christy
Let the adventure begin.....God is so good...He is your "shield, your portion, deliverer, shelter, strong tower, very present help in time of need" rest in His goodness and perfect plan! I'm excited for you that you've made the decision and now you can begin living out His will for your life right now....WOO HOO! God is good! We're praying for you as you transition....
I will continue to pray for you both Holly! I know this was not an easy decision, but like you said, if you have a peace about it, it's obvious that this is a direction you guys should proceed in for now. Good luck to both of you!
We will certainly miss you! Keep your blog so we can keep up with you! Good luck to your entire family.
I don't think the reality of this has truly hit me. But I will tell you, that I feel better about it now that you have a peace and confirmations you need. I would rather you move and be in the greater will of our Father, for whatever reason, than stay and wonder if you made the right decision. Our relationships have a lot invested in them and we are all here for you and can't wait to hear more of your stories of the adventures you have.
Love you so much!
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